tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8140269072707118775.post2197269996443029574..comments2011-03-13T17:51:42.682-07:00Comments on An Angel Never Dies ♥: One Month on.. (continued)Hannah White (Harrys Mummy)http://www.blogger.com/profile/09126945636409450191noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8140269072707118775.post-1266545944827328722011-02-02T12:25:22.162-08:002011-02-02T12:25:22.162-08:00I also wanted to share this poem with you that I h...I also wanted to share this poem with you that I have seen on a couple of other blogs. My husband really liked it...<br /><br />It must be very difficult <br />To be a man in grief, <br />Since "men don't cry" <br />and "men are strong" <br />No tears can bring relief. <br /><br />It must be very difficult <br />To stand up to the test, <br />And field the calls and visitors <br />So she can get some rest. <br /><br />They always ask if she's all right <br />And what she's going through. <br />But seldom take your hand and ask, <br />"My friend, but how are you?" <br /><br />You hear her crying in the night<br />And think your heart will break. <br />You dry her tears and comfort her, <br />But "stay strong" for her sake. <br />She wanted so to bring new life,<br />And to fill his heart with joy. <br />But she needs to know you’re love is real,<br />And that you’re still her boy.<br /><br /><br />It must be very difficult <br />To start each day anew. <br />And try to be so very brave - <br />But you lost your baby tooAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8140269072707118775.post-63265990187634870962011-02-01T19:24:00.157-08:002011-02-01T19:24:00.157-08:00I'm so sorry for your loss. I know those words...I'm so sorry for your loss. I know those words don't really help or change anything. But know that I do understand some of what you're going through. We lost our little girl on November 19th. Remember that everyone grieves differently, my husband cried harder when our dog died, then he has over Kristen.. But I know that he is grieving too. He wasn't there to hold her when she died, he was stuck out on a rig offshore, I think not having the closure I did makes it different for him, not quite as real..... But I know that he feels the loss too. And he hates seeing me so sad. And maybe it'll take more time for your boyfriend to let his feelings out into the open. Be patient with him, be compassionate towards him. Let this make you stronger as a couple. <br />And I know what you mean about going out of the house... I avoid going out lots of the time.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com